22 stories by "Dan Savage"
Some who have submissive desires and traumatic sexual histories find BDSM therapeutic.
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Some guys just see me as their gay Black fantasy come to life.
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She might just be annoyed.
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An untouchable butt, NPR during sex, and more quickies
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A relationship defined by sketchy behavior, gaslighting, and snooping
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While he's hosting your birthday party and playing with your testicles, he is not your boyfriend.
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Am I being jerked around?
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Hemorrhoids, cock rings, and more quickies
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Windpipes are quite vulnerable to injury.
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Many words describe letting your partner have sex with other people.
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He engages in rough sex knowing it's sometimes painful.
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A series of hot threesomes might revive your sex life.
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On being attracted to people with penises and also being extremely not into penises
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The best edible for weed and more quickies
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Investigating one man's failure to romantically attach to a vacation rando
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On giving thought to the cultural forces that may have shaped "preferences"
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On bad Doms, fluid pronouns, and identifying as bisexual
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Plus, why the logistics of a threesome matter
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What happens when your laptop dies and your Instagram followers have questions
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A committed romantic partner can't have sex with people they love
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This is a column about worries.
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Agreeing to a one-sided open relationship is not the same as agreeing to one-sided polyamory.
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